marriage

In today’s society most mothers under 30 are not married to the fathers of their children. About Half of all marriages end in divorce and these rates are going up. People don’t see marriage as sacred as it once was seen. It has been distorted with the growing corruption of today’s culture just like everything that was meant for good. I think today people don’t think it’s a big deal to get a divorce it’s just like a breakup. It is the man’s responsibility to keep the marriage and in today’s society boys are not turning into men. Boys should not get married and I think people aren’t ready for marriage when they start talking about. They get married because of their infatuation and not love. Love is when you care for someone more than you care for yourself. 

Growing up a child needs a mother and a father, separate needs from each parent. Divorce ruins that first off it gives them a bad example of what marriage is supposed to be and second of all it ruins their relationship and leaves them with empty places in their heart. When there is only one parent in the home the kids don't get the parental needs that a mother and father provide. It forces one parent to try and meet both those needs which is close to impossible. When a child doesn't have its needs met it looks to fulfill the love and abandonment in other things and the things of this world are perfect for ensnaring hurt children in its traps to make them think they belong and gives them a false sense of fulfillment. We don't need as a society any more broken children who will grow up to be broken adults and set worse examples. When people get married they have a chance to set a precedent for the people around them and their children. Divorce is never pretty no matter what anyone says it is a destructive thing that ruins relationships and the ability to maintain future ones. I'm not going pretend like I know the challenges that come with marriage cause I don't at all but I know that it is for sure possible to keep a a marriage and that is extremely important in today's society more important than people think.